Nate’s Notes 212: Moving to China with Five Children | Professor David Hunsaker

I’m so impressed with Dave and Melissa and their ability to face the uncertainty and challenges of moving to China with five kids.

From three-hour entrance exams, two-hour daily commutes, and 16-hour days for their children, I can only imagine how difficult it was.

And then of course they faced the risk of being separated from their children if any of them ever tested positive for COVID.

And I was especially intrigued by things I learned about China. Getting into a great first grade can be more difficult than getting into college. To reduce the pressure on kindergartners, teaching math was prohibited at schools. But then parents hired tutors to teach math to the kindergartners outside of school, often creating more stress. Many Chinese students are essentially forced to drop out of high school by 9^th grade. And Chinese culture doesn’t always reward problem solving so much as it rewards following rules.

Finally, I love the lesson Dave shared about what he learned. It’s important to hold off on judgements, because our assumptions about people are often wrong. However, people are generally pretty reasonable once we understand why they’re doing what they’re doing.

It’s a simple idea. Please take it seriously.

Dave Hunsaker Bio:

Dave Hunsaker is a business professor at Indiana University in the Kelley School of Business where he researches negotiation, teams, and leadership. Dave earned his PhD from the University of Utah and both an MPA and BA from Brigham Young University.